The HOW Behind The WHAT! | NEW for YOU: M.L.N. Program-Totum Coaching App-5am Club Group Coaching

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Welcome to another episode of more or less podcast where we encourage you to get the most out of life So you're not left with less so you have everything to give you leave everything out on the table Leave everything out on the court. So as always Let's get into it/this episode. I'm going to do basically a bonus feature. I'm talking about some new things that are happening so you can have an increase in your mindset. And I'm super excited to share what I am doing first and foremost. Thank God for another day. Thank God for you, the listener. I'm praying that these podcast episodes have been encouraging to you. I pray that they've been supportive to your journey, but this episode, I want to take it up a level. I want to take it up a notch, right? Because I want to talk about the hows of life, right? Versus the what, right? So the what is mindset, right? And sometimes we always want to Figure out the what, like what's the problem solving this problem, solving that problem, dealing with this, dealing with that, how to overcome this. We know what the thing is, but we never really dig into the how, right? How do I get from point A to point B? How do I truly, make the first step with overcoming trauma and depression? How do I make a progress? A lot of times we need help with the how, I'm struggling to what is I need to lose weight. The how is who do I call to help me lose weight? The what is I'm struggling with my mental health. The how is who do I call to get assistance? We're talking about mindset podcast, overcoming trauma, Overcoming the depths of life, the struggles of life, how to bounce back from those worst things that can happen to you to overcome. As you guys know, I've been sharing my story day in and day out of my journey from losing my wife who prior to losing my wife, lost my grandfather had my wife had two miscarriages, two stillbirths. And we had to deal with like now I'm dealing with the reality of we once were in a household with five people expecting a six to now it's just a household of three where my oldest, she's doing great. She's in college now, but it went from me by three kids, my wife who was pregnant and we were about to have another addition, right? So you're thinking about the house and expanding. And now my life literally did a 180, right? Like half, cut in half. My, my oldest, she's, brilliant doing her own thing at college right now. Excited to be that, but she's not here no more, right? We still communicate, but she's not, in the continual circle that we've had. So it was just me and my two youngest Micah and Josh. So talk about a shift. Going to a huge support system to now is a single widow father taking care of two kids I'm still taking care of my oldest two, but we all know as parents college life is an adventure of their own Where they're finding their own way. So now, I have that potential six Person household that we were about to embark on to now a household of three total Dynamic shift and not only that my kids were homeschooled now. They have their own private teacher So what am I to do now? So now even recording this podcast this morning and getting my kids, ready for today. My son, he's already waking up. He's an early riser like me. So he's sitting next to me watching the show. And so now we're shifting into this new dynamic. So I'm really like, what? What am I doing now? Working full time from home, but having these business ventures and having these business ventures and trying to understand, okay, what's next for Maurice? What's next in my journey? And I have so much more time on my hands because I'm not doing the homeschool. I actually got the private teacher, which God blessed me with. God, I'm so grateful for you opening up that door where I can do that. But now it's okay, I have more time on my hands. Truly more time on my hands, right? Because my kids are being taken care of, my time is shifted in a new way So Maurice, what are you gonna do now? And now it's time to as I say get it in, I thought of this Podcast talking about my journey, my story, then in my story, in my journey I've met some amazing people that, that have their own story and their own journey. So one of the things I'm looking to do is incorporate that into this podcast, getting people on here that that for you, the audience can see Maurice, you're not alone. Your story might be different to somebody else's. It's amazing to see how all these people are out here putting their best effort in life, getting the most out of life, really pushing and living the life that they want, going after what they want in spite of what they've been through in spite of struggle, in spite of downfall, in spite of setback, overcoming injuries, sickness, illness, loss. To bounce back and putting their best version of themselves out to the world. This is what people are doing. And that's what I want to bring to this show, but even more. So I want to talk about my how did I get here? What did I do? What shifted for me? One thing that I'll share with you guys is continued education. I continue seeking after the Lord. I continue to get to know the Lord better. I continue to take time to myself and say, Hey. There's some things about myself. I do not like and how can I get to really know me? How can I break those things off? Because sometimes we can shoot ourselves down before we give it a chance. For example Getting into myself like Oh man, I'm a single father now, raising three kids. It's going to be a struggle. No, I've rebuked that and I reject that. It's not going to be a struggle. I just got to figure out the how and accept the how and do it. And I did. And I am. And I'm practicing and I'm learning. I could have caved in and just been like a chick with my head cut off, trying to figure out, how am I going to do this new lifestyle? But I decided no. I know what I need to do and I just need to do it. And a lot of people need to hear that story. A lot of people need to hear the how, how did you figure it out? I have this concept that I put into a program called the MLN program. I made this years ago. I put this out years ago. And that's when I was doing a rollercoaster of entrepreneurship. While I was putting that program and coaching package and this and that year after year and then shifting and shifting. But now I'm in a space where everything makes sense. Everything comes together. And a piece of that how for me is the MLN program. It stands for mindset, lifestyle, and narrative. Change your mind, change your life, change the narrative. Now, what does that mean? Changing your mind is the core. To how you change your persona, how you change your being, you can be in a certain situation. And if you change your mindset and your outlook on that situation, you be, you become a different person, right? In a relationship, you can change your mind on how you see it, a different person, so instead of making it about you, you look at things from their point of view. And then once you consider them, you can approach that relationship Yep. Differently right when you look at your job, right? You can change the how right? Okay, you see this situation But I'm gonna change my mind in this particular situation, you know instead of always feel like they're out to get me Let me see what's really going on in this company and look at it differently. Let's see how I can contribute to this company that is how we shift the dynamic of our lives is focusing on the how focusing on the mindset behind it. You can change who you are. You're not subject to who you've always been. Every decision you've made in life has made you the person you are now and every decision you make now. It will be the person who you become. Okay. And just in the way you think now is not the way you thought years ago, but you're paying for the thought for the mindset and thoughts you had years ago. You can change that just because your whole circle knows you to be a certain way. You can do a one 80 on your life. Life can do a one 80 on you, but you can also do a one 80 on your life. You might've been the uptight, arrogant snob, and then you can be the peaceful, caring, loving giver, a whole different persona, a whole different personality. You can change that. You can decide to change that fully. It is up to you, right? Not everybody always believed in Jesus, but then one time they decided to make that change. Not everybody always was a fitness guru, but in the one time they decided to change. Not everybody was always. Not everybody was always that person that they were now because but they did decide to change prior. So your mindset can change your life. But here's the thing. Once you change your mind, for example, I'm starting this 5am club, you're going to hear more about that. Shout out to Totem right now. This Totem platform is a coaching platform. Where I'll be doing all my coaches, programs, and services, where you can fully get the fullness of what's happening on this podcast, but I'm giving that to you, I'm explaining that a little bit later, but in that space, we're talking about changing your mind and changing your life, your lifestyle, right? And that 5am club that I just dropped, the 5am club is all about getting up early, getting started in your day, living passionately, right? Getting your day going. So you can set the tone for your day, waking up with prayer, meditating, stretching, exercise, be getting in your space, getting your mindset, no phones for the first hour to two hours of the day, no phones, just reading, listening to your, to a podcast, to a book, to the word of God, shifting your mind, getting your mind, taking control of your mind. We'll set the tone for your day. And if you do that consistently, you do that enough, it's going to change your life. You're going to look like a different person. You're going to feel like a different person. You're going to act differently. And then the people around you are going to change, but then this is where it really digs in. The point about changing your lifestyle is then getting to a point where you want to encourage others to change their lifestyle. That's the whole point of this podcast is encouraging you to be different. To live differently, but then once you live differently, and once you affect enough people, you're changing the narrative, right? Imagine you have a following of a hundred people that are following your program, that are following your services, that are getting the most out of life. But then they find their hundred people, and so on and so forth, to where The whole nation, the whole world is changing, right? 2, 000 years later, we're following after Jesus Christ. There's a number of us that are living passionately as a result of believing in Jesus Christ. There are a number of us that are living passionately as a result of Martin Luther King. Even more recently depending on what political side you're on, right? There's enough people passionately living according to what they believe Obama did. There's enough people passionately living according to what they believe Obama did. Or what they believe Trump did or what they believe Biden did. But they found someone, someone made a difference in their life and changed their trajectory of their life. Look at celebrities. Some people were affected by the rock and his story. Some people were affected by Kevin Hart and his story. Some people were affected by, you know. A movie like Tony Stark, right? I'm a Marvel fan, right? But that something in that changed them. It took one person to change their life, whether it be fictional or not, whether it be present or not. If you want to dig back deeper, Andrew Carnegie, Jim Rohn, Zig Ziglar. A lot of these are Eric Thomas, more recently, Tony Robbins, more recently, you know, a lot of these famous speakers, a lot of these famous writers, a lot of these people John Maxwell is another good one. Just names dropping of people I've read. I've read multiple books by these people, stories by their people, these podcasts, things like that, where they decided to get the most out of life and listening to them has changed my life. And now you listening to me is going to change your life. And that is the domino effect of changing the narrative. So you want to see a different world. It starts with your mindset, and then your mindset becomes your lifestyle. When people see your lifestyle, there's going to be haters, but then there's going to be people that are going to be encouraged by you. It's going to transform their lives, right? And then they're going to transform the lives of others. And it's so on and so forth, that domino effect is going to happen. But it starts with you, it starts with you changing your mind. And that's what I'm doing right now. That's my how. First, the MLM program is a program I made where it's a self paced, but you get coaching as well. You walk through the program then you get personal coaching with me as well during that program, during the time frame. And, it could take you 30 days, 60 days, 90 days or more, but again, it's a lifestyle choice. It's a lifestyle change. Addition, additionally to that is you have The more or less podcast mindset shifting for your growth. Listen to this podcast day in and day out. And the result of this podcast as a result of me studying the word of God, me reading books like the compound effect atomic habits, the 5 a. m. club thinking, grow rich rich, dad, poor dad. These books have transformed my life. I've transformed my thought process and now I'm, taking the best parts of those, living my life and then giving you guys the results of that life. So you can go ahead and read those books or you can listen to this podcast and get, in a nutshell what these books are teaching me, but definitely read them for yourself. You're getting that, you're getting personal coaching. I'm also doing my own 5am club where, we're waking up early weekly. To get your mindset going for the week, right? You can join that group coaching session that I'm launching again You're going to see here. You're going to start seeing me drop links called the totem app my totem coaching app This is a new platform where coaches if you're interested fitness coaches, mindset, wellness coaches, individuals can put everything in one location to make it easy for them. Your coaching sessions, your packages it's like a website without having your own personal website, but your own link, with your content, people can be exclusive to you. And get the exclusivity of your program and services. And I have so much more to offer on there, but I just want to let you know that's what I'm doing with my next step with my, how is looking is unbarking on this new journey and taking you guys along with me. So if you're being encouraged by this podcast, take that leap of faith. Click the link that's going to take you to my packages and services. You need to invest in yourself. I invested in myself and the results have been tremendous. People need a coach. People need a therapist. People need a pastor. People need a minister. People need all these things. I'm not saying I'm all these things, but I could be one of these things for you. In your journey, people need all kinds of connections, all kinds of support to get them from one space to the next, to get them from one thought process to the next. And it starts with your mindset shifting. Why not, step into the, to that space with someone that's going to truly change your mind. And here's a bonus. I'm doing this podcast here, but if you want even more in depth, exclusive interviews, Teaching from this podcast. I'm doing bonus episodes on the totem app where you can subscribe to that And it's almost like you're getting personal coaching personal teaching that's going to truly change your life you can get the open door here But you can have a seat at the table when you sign up and subscribe to my program on the totem app you know you're getting enough here, but if you want that more if you're like Maurice, I'm ready to dig deep I'm ready to dive in I'm ready to see what life has to offer me I'm ready to get more out of life, and I'm tired of being stuck. I'm tired of being in the same place I want more go ahead and click that link Join my tribe, join the community of like minded individuals that are doing what they need to do to shift the narrative, to shift the world around them so they can give the world their all, so the world can get the most out of them, so they can change this world, because that's what I'm here to do. I'm here to encourage you. I'm here to build, I'm here to build community so we can change this world together. So thank you guys for joining in here today. Thank you guys for Just being so supportive. My, my son's been rocking with me. He's actually done a super awesome job sitting here listening. Jocelyn, you want to say good morning and hello to everybody. Say good morning. Hello. Good morning. Hello. Say, have a good day. And thanks for listening. Catch you guys next time on more or less.